It is with profound sorrow and heartbreak that the Tonawanda community announces the untimely passing of Charles “Charlie” Tanner Jr., who tragically lost his life following a sudden health episode related to epilepsy. Charlie was just beginning the journey of adulthood when a tragic accident at home brought his vibrant life to an end. He passed away far too soon, leaving behind grieving loved ones, lifelong friends, and a town that cherished his spirit.
Born and raised in Tonawanda, New York, Charlie was the beloved son of Charles Tanner Sr. and Linda Tanner, and a devoted brother to Emily Tanner. From an early age, Charlie displayed an uncommon warmth and a sense of humor that brought light to every room he entered. His kindness was matched only by his intelligence, and those who had the privilege of knowing him will remember his bright smile, quick wit, and deeply compassionate nature.
Charlie attended Tonawanda High School, where he excelled academically and was actively involved in student clubs and athletics. A natural leader and a loyal friend, Charlie was the kind of person others looked up to—not for any grand gestures, but for his authenticity, empathy, and unwavering support of those around him. He had a remarkable ability to make people feel seen, heard, and understood.
After graduating, Charlie pursued his studies in computer science, aspiring to build a career that would allow him to create meaningful tools and solutions for others. He was fascinated by technology and driven by a desire to make the world a more connected and inclusive place. He had dreams of launching his own startup one day—a vision he shared enthusiastically with his friends and family.
Beyond his studies and ambitions, Charlie was a true lover of life. He had a passion for music, an affinity for nature, and a gift for storytelling. Whether playing guitar at local open mics, hiking through upstate New York trails, or simply gathering with friends over a board game or bonfire, Charlie found joy in the little things—and he made sure others did too.
Charlie’s life was also marked by courage. He lived with epilepsy, a condition he faced with quiet resilience and strength. Despite the challenges it posed, he never allowed it to define him. He was open about his condition, hoping to raise awareness and reduce stigma, and often used his own experiences to support and comfort others living with similar health concerns.
His passing is a devastating loss not only to his immediate family but to all who knew him. Charlie’s legacy will live on through the lives he touched, the joy he brought, and the example he set through his kindness, courage, and unwavering authenticity.
He is survived by his loving parents, Charles Sr. and Linda Tanner, his sister Emily, his grandparents, several aunts, uncles, cousins, and countless friends who loved him dearly. His family wishes to thank the Tonawanda community for their outpouring of support during this time of unimaginable grief.
A memorial service to celebrate Charlie’s life will be held at [Funeral Home Name] on [Date] at [Time], followed by a reception where friends and family can share stories and memories. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations be made to the Epilepsy Foundation in Charlie’s memory, to support ongoing research and advocacy for those living with epilepsy.
Though Charlie’s time on earth was far too brief, his spirit remains ever-present in the hearts of all who knew him. He will be remembered always as a beacon of light—gentle, generous, and full of life.
