It is with profound sorrow and heavy hearts that we share the devastating news of the passing of our dear friend and colleague, Steve Odierno. Steve, a devoted member of the Saint Joseph Regional (SJR) community, was a beloved Director of Marketing, a proud father of Steven Odierno ’23 and Katherine Odierno ’25, and a true embodiment of the values that make SJR such a special place. His unexpected passing leaves a deep void in our hearts and in the very fabric of our school.
Steve’s connection to SJR was more than just a professional role—he was a living testament to the spirit of brotherhood, loyalty, and community that is at the heart of our school. His love for SJR and its mission was felt by everyone who crossed his path. Whether he was working behind the scenes, supporting our students, or simply sharing a moment of laughter with colleagues, Steve brought a warmth, compassion, and heartfelt dedication to everything he did. His absence will be felt deeply by all who had the privilege of knowing him.
Steve was more than a colleague—he was a friend, a mentor, and a pillar of strength for many. His commitment to his work at SJR was matched only by his unwavering love for his family. As a proud father, Steve supported his children in every way, always encouraging them to strive for their best while holding true to the values he cherished so deeply. His legacy will live on in the memories of his family, his colleagues, and all of the students whose lives he touched.
Steve had an unparalleled ability to connect with others, making everyone feel heard and valued. His warmth and generosity extended far beyond his professional role; he was a guiding light for many, always offering encouragement, wisdom, and a helping hand when needed. Whether it was a late-night phone call, an impromptu meeting to brainstorm ideas, or simply a quick chat in the hallway, Steve made sure that his presence was a positive one, always lifting up those around him.
In his time as the Director of Marketing at SJR, Steve had a lasting impact. He was instrumental in promoting the school’s values and ensuring that the mission of SJR was known and appreciated by the community. Through his hard work and dedication, he helped build a sense of unity and pride among students, faculty, and alumni. Steve’s contributions to the school went far beyond his professional duties—he was a true ambassador for the SJR family.
As a father, Steve was nothing short of exceptional. His love for his children, Steven and Katherine, was evident to all who knew him. He was their biggest cheerleader, always present at their events and ensuring that they had the support they needed to succeed. Steve instilled in them the same values of hard work, perseverance, and integrity that guided him throughout his life. His commitment to his children was unwavering, and his role as a father was one that he cherished deeply.
Steve’s legacy will live on through the countless lives he touched. His spirit will continue to guide those who were fortunate enough to work with him and to know him. He was more than just a colleague—he was a friend, a mentor, and a role model. His dedication to his family, his work, and his community will forever be remembered.
Services for Steve Odierno:
As we come together to honor Steve’s life and memory, we invite all who knew him to join in the following services:
Wake: Thursday, April 24 | 3:00 – 7:00 PM
Vander Plaat Funeral Home, Wyckoff, NJ
Funeral Mass: Friday, April 25 | 10:30 AM
St. Elizabeth’s Church, Wyckoff, NJ
In the spirit of honoring Steve’s memory, SJR will begin the school day on Monday, April 28, with a Mass in his honor. All students are asked to wear a dress shirt and tie, and no shorts. This special service will give us an opportunity to come together as a school community, to reflect on Steve’s life and contributions, and to offer our prayers for his family.
During this difficult time, we ask that you continue to keep the Odierno family in your thoughts and prayers. The loss of Steve is felt deeply by all of us, but we take comfort in knowing that his legacy of love, commitment, and brotherhood will continue to inspire us all.
In the wake of Steve’s passing, the entire SJR community has rallied together in support of his family. The outpouring of love, condolences, and memories shared by students, faculty, alumni, and friends is a testament to the impact Steve had on all of us. His dedication to SJR and his unwavering loyalty to his family, friends, and colleagues will never be forgotten.
Steve’s spirit will live on in the traditions he helped build, in the lives of those he mentored, and in the hearts of everyone who had the privilege of knowing him. We are committed to honoring his memory by continuing the work he so deeply believed in—ensuring that SJR remains a place of excellence, integrity, and community.
As we say goodbye to Steve, we reflect on the immeasurable impact he had on our lives. He was a shining example of kindness, resilience, and dedication, and we will carry his legacy forward. His memory will continue to inspire us all to be better, to work harder, and to love deeper.
May Steve Odierno rest in the peace of Christ, and may his family find solace in the love and support of their SJR family during this time of sorrow. He will never be forgotten, and his spirit will always remain a part of SJR.
Rest in peace, Steve. Your heart, your loyalty, and your dedication will continue to guide us.
